FOR THE LOVE OF ENEMIES

Being betrayed by someone you least expected to do that. Yeas life is full of disappointments. But who said that it has to disappoint? Who said that it is okay for you to be disappointed? What dictates the time place and nature of disappointment? And who dictated that we have to live with the disappointment?

At time we bury ourselves in graves dug by our enemies. We do finish the job for them before they even start it. The bible always tells us to make the enemy our friends. Often we wonder if such is possible. Here is why it has to be done 

The writers of the holy book were mad. They were filed with the Holy Spirit. And as it is described, when they were filled by the Holy Spirit the rest of the rest of the people thought they had gone berserk. Intuition is the Holy Spirit for the non-believers. 

So this is why we should love our enemies.

•  If we hate our enemies we make it easier for them to hurt us.  If you want to steal money from someone and they say hi to you every day, you will have second guess to do so because they have done nothing but be nice to our everyday. On the other hand if you show them rage, they will not have mercy on you.

•  If you are filled with frenzy it kills you a little bit inside when you see them think about them or at the mention of their name. what if they are in your everyday life, you will end up angry the whole day

• At the end of the day hating a person who dislikes you won’t make them love you. At least not in the world I live in. but showing them kindness will boil up some sense in them. It makes you the bigger person in the room.

• As much as I would want to tie them up and pour barbeque sauce on them before feeding them to my pet tiger, they are really not worth my effort. Yes it will definitely excite my stomach caterpillars as they hatch to butterflies but I can’t risk my freshly manicured nail for that. yes i do love my self way too much.

So if you think you are my enemy you can rest easy honey baby bear ain’t no revenge monster.  Take your long showers and let the self professed enemies struggle to lift their self esteem with you.  

by TyeMB

you need it loosen

The little things that we do ignore, most of the times are the same things that come to bite us in places we should not scratch in public. You wear a tight inner-wear in the morning knowing very well that it is going to supper press you by noon. Then you think that it might just expand miraculously and you will end up being comfortable by mid morning.  You left the house at seven it is not yet eleven and you have adjusted the inner-wear line more than ten times. You are in a meeting and the situation does not allow you to leave to adjust “the line”; you feel like it is going to cut your body symmetrically at the waist line. So you are asking yourself; why did I choose this one? Just to lift my bum and give it the right tight shape that this skirt requires?

Above is the case of Linda Akello the police officer in a tight up skirt. Yeas I know being a fellow woman and writing this article at the same time bring out the WW0 (women war) that has been infinite. But this is not the case I want to present.  

When joining an institution like the police service, I want to believe you are not forced into it. Neither can one persist through the hard trainings undergone there unwillingly. There is also a code of conduct given to the joining candidates. And I think they should be followed supervised and unsupervised.

So when you break the conduct one should be courteous enough to ask for forgiveness.  Not go throwing stones in your own glass house just because “thirsty” Kenyans on twitter and other social media are backing you up. Your decision to fight your mother is always a foolish one.  Going to court to stop your hearings at the police force is not the brightest idea.

Just because your immediate supervisor liked your dressing for his/ her own personal reasons does not mean that you did not break the law. For the sake of safety how does one run in such a tight up skirt. Yours is not a luxurious job as you might want it to seem. Madam Kaindi is not jealous of you. She is too old for such anyway. Not that she is a relative or a close friend.  Just a perspective I would like to see her as.  

Simple rules and partial decisions that we make become the end of us.  If we decide to press the law an inch it does it us 5 inches back just like a boomerang.                                                                                                                                                                                                    

 learn from it and let it go...